I spent a week furious that nobody asked me what I thought.
And when I finally sat down to write out what I thought, it took me nine days, because I hadn’t been asking myself either.
What We Have Now
Ben didn’t bring me to Oregon.
I didn’t follow him here.
The two of us built something new, on terms we negotiated like two adults who had never actually done that before.
And this time, my life wasn’t the part that had to disappear to make his possible.
Now I want to hear from you. Was Chelsea right to go along with the move at all — or had he already broken something that shouldn’t be rewarded with a yes? And what do you make of Arnold, who cried in a hallway because he assumed she already knew? Tell us in the comments on the Facebook video. We read every single one, and honestly, the comments on stories like this are sometimes better than the story itself.
