Now he stepped forward. He looked at my three children one by one.
“I’m going to say something,” he said quietly. “And then I’m going to leave, because this is your family and not mine.”
Nobody stopped him.
“When I was eight years old,” he said, “I didn’t have anything to eat. Every single day. For a whole year. My mother was sick, and we lived in a car for part of that winter. The other kids at school knew. They called me names.”
He looked at me.
“Your mother was sixteen. She was working because her own family didn’t have money. And every day, she put a lunch ticket under my elbow and told me the cafeteria had extras. She spent half of everything she earned. She never told a soul. Not then. Not in forty-six years. She didn’t do it to be thanked. She did it because she saw a hungry kid and she couldn’t walk past.”